Imposter Syndrome Reality Check

Good morning high achiever and most importantly, self-doubter.

84% of entrepreneurs and small business owners experience imposter syndrome.

You too? Welcome to the club. We’ve got cookies and T-shirts that say, "Is my success luck?”

Now, the feel-good narrative goes like this:

"I overcame imposter syndrome and emerged stronger, blah, blah.”

But that's not my style, and honestly, not how this works.

There is no cure for imposter syndrome.

But stick with me! I won’t leave you hanging. Instead of selling you the same old "overcome it" spiel, I want to shine a light on what it really is and why it’s not the big, bad monster you might

Originally, this 'imposter phenomenon' was coined to describe high-achieving women who thought they were frauds.

Oh, how times have changed, because now everyone's invited to the party.

Raise your hand if you've ever thought:

• "Who am I kidding?"

• "Am I even qualified for this?"

• "I probably don't know half of what I should."

• "There’s so much I don't know that I don't even know what I don't know!"

Sound familiar? Even when every sign, trophy, and compliment is saying otherwise?

Let’s get real for a second:

Do you genuinely think that someone brought you on board just because they felt sorry for you? Or could it be – just maybe – because you've got the skills

What you’re feeling is growth and let’s be honest, it comes with growing pains.

Even though you've put in the work, gained knowledge, and have the creds to back it up, that nagging discomfort reminds you you're not an omniscient god.

Which is great – because it means you won’t turn into the asshole we all try to avoid at networking events.

You know, THAT guy:

• Who acts like they know everything but can't string two relevant facts together.

• Who asks for a raise for the bare minimum.

• Who takes 10 minutes to explain how to tie their shoelaces.

Now, if you're still with me and think, "Yeah, Nichole, but what if I am faking it?” Let’s evaluate.

Let’s ask Google what an "imposter” is.

Spoiler alert: It's someone pretending to be someone else to deceive others.

Are you doing that? Doubtful. But, hey, this is a judgment-free zone, so let's humor the idea.

Ask yourself:

• What don't I know? (Probably a lot, just like the rest of us.)

• Does everyone I'm 'fooling' know what I know? (Nope.)

• Do I have proof of ability? (Sure do!)

So you are worried about what you don't know? Congratulations, you're normal.

Doubt is normal but don’t allow it to disqualify where you are now. It was no accident - or luck.

Your reality checker,

Nichole

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